7 Tips to Better Decision 
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7 Tips to
Better Decision-Making: 1. SCHEDULE QUIET TIME-to reflect on the meaning of your moments. Be grateful of the slow times at work and in your personal life. They can bring creativity and wisdom if we embrace them and spend time in the quiet period reflecting: How might I create the life I desire?". 2. DESIGN YOUR OWN LIFE-Dare to dream what your life could look like. Put aside practical thinking for a moment. See what appears. Then, sit in the question, "How might I celebrate who I am in a meaningful way to me?" "How might I make this year my best year ever?" Be careful not to fall into expectations or determine it could never be. The ideal balance is to visualize what you want to manifest, while staying open to what is. See what comes to you. Practice having an expectation of abundance. 3. RE-EVALUATE YOUR PRIORITIES-Just because others are spending time traveling, going to lots of parties, buying lots of material things and working over time, doesn't mean that has to be your life. Ask: What do I want most from life? Discover your own priorities: Dare to be unique. Get a sense of child-like wonder each day. 4. MANAGE EXPECTATIONS-Be aware of expectations on a more conscious level. How often are you trying to control so that your expectations are being met? How often do you let others expectations control you? Behind control is always fear. Break it down...ask yourself: "If I don't get my expectations met or meet others expectations, what am I afraid will happen? Sit with the fear. Do nothing but notice it and name it. See how it disappears. Learn to stay open, to trust and to allow. 5. CHOOSE YOUR MOMENTS CAREFULLY-and live them fully. Instead of getting caught up in "busy-ness", choose your moments wisely. Slow down. Get more intentional about your choices. 6. GO DEEPER...ask yourself: "WHO AM I?" and WHAT IS MY PURPOSE?" -Stay focused on the question and see what comes your way...feel your anxiety when you step into the unknown...look for the miracles. 7. LEARN TO LET GO OF CONTROL-Your kids, spouse, co-workers or friends may not do something as good as you, but they may have the time. Be satisfied with the position of the observer once in a while. Let others be the players for a change.
all contents are copyright Susan K. Wehrley & Associates, Inc 2004 |
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